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Do you see this woman?


“Simon, I have something to say to you...Do you see this woman?" Luke 7:40, 44

There is a very familiar story in Luke 7 in which Jesus dines at the home of Simon the Pharisee. A very sinful woman crashes the party to anoint Jesus' feet with a jar of very expensive perfume, and more significantly with her own tears. Simon was not happy! It's a simple story about the grace of God to forgive our sins. Our sin is a debt to God - a debt we can never repay. Our sin is never so great as to keep us from the grace of God; and our goodness can never be good enough to earn it. This is the meaning of grace. The point of the story is that our love for Jesus is directly proportional to how much we understand this grace.

But in the middle of this simple yet profound story is a question that we might almost miss. "Then turning toward the woman he (Jesus) said to Simon, "Do you see this woman?" (verse 44). Think about the question for a while. Not only had Simon seen this woman, he had been grumbling about her to his friends ever since she entered the room. He saw her and had already labeled her such a sinner that she cast a shadow on the integrity of anyone who would associate with her. Many think she was a prostitute. One thing Simon makes very clear is that he saw her, and she was unwelcome. She was despised…lowly…unworthy.

But it's not just the obvious nature of the question; it's the oddity in which Jesus is asking it. Jesus is conversing with Simon, but the text says while talking with Simon Jesus turns His gaze to the woman. He looks her in the eye and watches her intently. She is important to Him. An outcast, this despised woman, has grabbed the attention of the Master and He is not willing to let her go. While others whisper behind her back, Jesus engages with this woman face to face. In doing so, He restores her dignity and affirms her worth as a dearly beloved child of God. And He invited Simon into the conversation. I often wonder what Simon was thinking in this moment. He was at a crossroads of sorts.

Day in and day out, I have the chance to engage with people that much of Thai society has ignored or even despised. In all my sin and imperfection, I have to confess that often times I treat them more like a ministry project than as friends. I don't always see them as Jesus sees them. I don't always recognize the richness of their faith, the depth of their love and how much they have to offer God or myself. Too often, I am like Simon. But in the moments that I pause to heed the voice of my Savior asking me to see, I am changed beyond what I can describe.

Our blog is not supposed to be about just news or events. Hopefully it's about much more than that. Living and working with the poor in a new culture has been a transforming experience. And more than anything we hope to give you a glimpse into the relationships, experiences and questions that have shaped us. Sometimes life here is humorous, sometimes we rejoice, and sometimes we just simply weep. But one thing is for sure, when Jesus calls you to join Him in a conversation with the poor, you will never be the same.

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Friends of the City is a project of Servant Partners, a Christian 501c(3) registered in the USA.  Servant Partners is called and committed to transform communities with the urban poor. When you give through Servant Partners using the donate button above and designate "Friends of the City," your gift goes directly to breaking the cycle of poverty among some of the most vulnerable people in Bangkok. And, since Servant Partners is a US - based non profit, contributions to or for the ministry are tax-deductible to the extent allowable by law. All donations are in United States Dollars.

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